不见他过: 职场经验
妙音
posted @ 2022年9月20日 22:39
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一、什么是不见他过
1. 见如不见，视而不见，保护自己的心念，不被污染。
2. 好坏、善恶都是过眼云烟，不断在变化。
3. 好坏、善恶同样因人而异。一个对你很好，对另一个人可能会很坏。
“过”是无常的、相对的。而心灵至少会跟着自己几十年，污染了它，让生活过得不愉快，不值得。
二、个人看法
1. 上面的看法很对，没什么毛病
2. 真的所有情况都适合吗？一直存有疑问。
三、职场案例
1. 当我是个管理者，带着一个团队，达成某个目标。
2. 依据价值交换的原则管理团队
3. 当遇到了，有人甩锅、出工不出力，占着茅坑了。
4. 他违反了基本原则，已经从心理上把他排除团队了。另需要造势，把他从茅坑上弄走。
5. 这个时候，就不得不讲人过失了。
6. 这个做法对不对？会造成什么后果？
四、造成的后果
1. 虽然是按照原则处理的。然后事情传递后，会变味，影响个人前途。
2. 当事人也会用自己的影响力，以他的逻辑讲你的过失，会让你丢掉部分人心。
五、最佳做法
1. 只做不说，该排除就排除。
2. 缺少资源，直接找领导要。
六、总结
1. 底层员工。讲人过失，无非是受气了。人微言轻，很容易惹麻烦。
2. 中层管理。讲人过失，是为了造势，达成目的。同样有副作用。
3. 高层管理。讲人过失。容易让团队离心。
4. 是不是不能讲人过失，其实也不是
把每一次讲人过失，都当着要惹一次大祸。
有什么值得我冒这个大的险，我才会讲。
一般情况都不讲。
坚持这种心态N年之后，也许才会领会到“不见他过”更深层次的含义
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